I feel like every day is a roller coaster for me of knowing that my only goal is sitting down and doing a small thing to get closer to my future goals (getting physically stronger, writing more books, posting good stuff on Substack) and the annoyance that it takes so long. Even though I know that's how it goes. One reason I had to really take an intentional step back from social media is because it tricked me into thinking the process was shorter and easier. I could write something, and then people liked it! I succeeded! I won! But it was all kind of fake, and not any of it brought me closer to my long term goals.
Great essay. As someone who took up a musical instrument late in life, and still aspires to original compositions, this was a great reminder that slow and steady "wins" the race. Though my only competition is myself.
Sage advice. It’s so easy to flip through social media and see the results, but no one pays attention to, or even posts, the 9,999 hours it took to get there. (Side note: are you taking psychology?)
Really, really like this piece - the transformation from wish to what if is great. Inspirational - and seems to encapsulate a lot of what's going on with me at the moment!
I feel like every day is a roller coaster for me of knowing that my only goal is sitting down and doing a small thing to get closer to my future goals (getting physically stronger, writing more books, posting good stuff on Substack) and the annoyance that it takes so long. Even though I know that's how it goes. One reason I had to really take an intentional step back from social media is because it tricked me into thinking the process was shorter and easier. I could write something, and then people liked it! I succeeded! I won! But it was all kind of fake, and not any of it brought me closer to my long term goals.
Great post. And so very true. I’m currently working on my BA in Communication and Media. Better late then never, right?
Wise words, Mark - and not too heavy on the superheroes! I really enjoy your 'Curious Realizer' posts.
(edited to correct British English autocorrection!)
Great essay. As someone who took up a musical instrument late in life, and still aspires to original compositions, this was a great reminder that slow and steady "wins" the race. Though my only competition is myself.
Sage advice. It’s so easy to flip through social media and see the results, but no one pays attention to, or even posts, the 9,999 hours it took to get there. (Side note: are you taking psychology?)
Very inspiring! I truly believe that sometimes the gift is in the struggle. Stay curious, my friend!
What a great read! Thanks so much for this, Mark.
Mark, I love this and it was exactly what I needed to hear today.
Hi Mark,
Just wanted to say that as a new reader of your Substack that you provide consistently great work! Thanks for your evident care and diligence.
Shazam! Love this!
Really, really like this piece - the transformation from wish to what if is great. Inspirational - and seems to encapsulate a lot of what's going on with me at the moment!